欲寄棉衣君不還
不寄棉衣君又寒
寄與不寄間
妾身千萬難
I have met the same situation,The weather is getting colder and colder my wife will do the same thing what you can do to your husband.But I have no choice I have to say sorry to you my dearest wife I have no time for you.Pls understand me !Merry days will come,believe.